Hello everyone: 3 I need your advice. The following situation: I play with my friend Ark on the Playstation and we have taken apart and our own tribe. We help each other with farms, etc. It's very easy for me to say, hey if you need oil, for example, I can give you something. But it is very difficult for me to take his help. So if he says to me that I have an oil pump and can supply you and me with it, you don't have to build one. I always say no, because I don't want to take anything away from him. How can I find it easier to receive his help? : 3 Thanks for your help: 3
There are people who like to give up work and don't have a bad feeling when others do something for them.
And then there are those like you who like to take everything into their own hands, do not feel good when others GIVE something.
You can certainly jump over your shadow (in this game) and just "take & good" one or the other time - but your basic attitude towards taking / giving will probably not change.
As I understood it, you have a kind of alliance, i.e. You work together, but without being in a tribe. Something like this consists of a give and take, you don't have to use any resources for an oil pump, for example, because he already has one, but if he needs metal and only you have an industrial smelter, then he can use your Indu for that then you've used up resources. In other words, you should help others and still accept help yourself, because after all, you work together and you benefit from each other
Yes exactly are in an alliance and yes I have to learn that: 3
