Would you like the break or not?

Suppose you were a friend of a buddy for 5 years.

Recently there was a dispute in which BOTH were to blame.

You were brought home early and asked, "When will you see each other again?" came only meaningless answers like "kp do not know" or "look"

When asked why, you do not receive a concrete answer. Only a "strict your stupid brain itself" You want to meet the person only. After that, she threatened with one month of contact break + 1 month on each message.

She needs rest. On Twitch in the live streams, however, the person seems totally happy and relaxed, she also seems to do something new every day and post it diligently on Insta.

You are being blackmailed so that you do not say another word until she answers. No matter how many months there are. Otherwise, the friendship is over.

Would you join in the whole thing? Honestly, I feel a bit foolish.

Friendships only work in both directions.

If she wants peace, ok. A clarifying conversation would be more adult and helpful, but ultimately it does not seem to be able to.

Would pull me back and leave her room. Maybe after a few weeks looking for contact again and directly suggest a meeting / venture. Only face to face with the argument and the break.

But maybe after some time I will not feel like this "friendship" any more. If she does not answer, the contact ends.

No. This is blackmail, which you should not participate in any case.

As a result, the person in question even gets their will and receives no message. Yes, she even gets her will completely and never receives any more from you.

Strife is resolved differently under reasonable humanity. There's also a couple of days on diving station, but then you try to get along with friends again.

Anyone who suspends such a "friendship" until he feels like contact again has not understood the meaning of a friendship.

That comes as a termination of friendship without the person pronouncing it that way.

Since you can't force contact, I would have nothing left but to accept the contact ban. I would forgive the person and let them go, and live my life until they come back.

Should I talk to the person if she likes to break the friendship completely or not?

Wrong approach. You should always be passive, because it is not actively directed against you. Unless it is generally unfair.

Not at first. I would wait, like two weeks.

By the way,

She needs rest. On Twitch in the live streams, however, the person seems totally happy and relaxed, she also seems to do something new every day and post it diligently on Insta.

That sounds like this person should not do something relaxed in social media posts when you're having a fight… That this person needs "rest" refers to the relationship between you, not fundamentally.