My mate's dad is into me?

I actually wanted to avoid this step, but unfortunately it comes as it has to. About half a year ago I moved 70km from my home, and at that time I also had a group with whom I regularly spent time in the evenings. Well, now that I've moved, I'm also in contact with the father of a good friend of the group (I only saw him streaming on twitch once and that's how I got in touch). Well, you definitely notice that he definitely wants something from me. But it's just so weird he's 35 and I'm 21 and his son is just a buddy of mine. He is really very nice and it's a lot of fun to talk to him. But I don't know either… I already told him that nothing was going to happen because it was just weird. To be honest, I don't know how I feel about him, I'm somehow at odds. I don't know how to deal with the whole situation.

Talk to him openly and honestly about it. If you have a problem with the age difference, then this is so. Basically, the difference is not bad - but all parties must stop coped.

Well it's not the age difference, there's Oma although again stupid comments like my ex but my problem is just the situation that he has a son and this is just a friend of mine. If I imagine he would have something with my mother?! Wtf… 😂

I would talk to the father. I would tell him how you feel about him, that you don't see any feelings. Tell him how you see it, the then the situation is not worse, and he did not fall in love even more in love with you. Lg😀

Ah yes, of course, that's exactly how I see it, but with friends you sometimes make an exception if you don't want to upset or hurt them, which in turn can lead to the friendship being broken. 😅

Exception? For once, I don't do anything that I don't really stand for.

Yes well as each is determined again different. Perhaps I should first a quiet conversation with the Father thus lead to get out crystallized on what he now actually hoping accurate and if there further is perhaps time to talk to my colleagues looking at because at least from the ground up directly open and honest to be. To be honest, I don't feel like breaking the friendship because of it. 😊

What does your mate's mother say?

She hasn't been with him for a long time, you think I'm writing with married or married men 😂😂😂

Besides, I don't really know his mother, I've only seen her 1-2 times. In general, we don't know our parents as much in this group.

That sounds like a plan.

Thank you for your answer and have a nice weekend 👍🏼

You too - thank you❣️

I would talk to your buddy about it first. But even if you could imagine with his Dad you really more.

Then, if it does not interfere with your mate, I would look for a conversation with his father.

Thank you 😊