Why does my best friend get everything?

Po
- in PlayStation
14

I'm w / 12 my best friend 15 and how can i say in my eyes she is rich, she got a ps4 for christmas from her parents, from her older brother Vans and from her other older brother 60 euro… I got nothing Christmas because my mom has resin4 and I still have 6 smaller siblings, everything is very difficult and I envy my bff, and the best comes now when I talked to her on the phone and we came up with the topic of animal crossing, she said "my brother has ordered me a switch with animal crossing, if you would like you can come over and play with it "I thought I didn't listen properly… You just get something like that! I would like that too… Or your father loves her mangas he always buys her mangas… I would like that too. I want to live like you

In

Well you can't choose how to grow up. But you can start making money yourself with mini jobs and things like that.

El

At 12?

Can she deliver newspapers or do undeclared work.

Cl

Unfortunately we can't help you with this… You have to be good at school and get a good job.

gi

Life is pretty unfair. But instead of watching her, you should be happy with what you have. Many children in Africa have no roof over their heads, not even eating and drinking. They also think "woah she has everything and that is so unfair". Your girlfriend is sure to envy richer people. You can't change that.

instead of being sad about it, target it. The goal is to let your children live the way you want them today.

Mi

Unfortunately, that happens

that you envy something that others have

but she can't do anything about it and you can't do anything for not having it.

You can't always have what you want in life.
You get older, more mature and you can set yourself the goal that you want to earn good money in a job that you enjoy and then you do what you can and want.
I understand your emotional state

but it can't be changed

In

Yes, selling on eBay or helping the neighbors is of course also possible.

El

What is she supposed to sell?

ac

At 12, she is also not allowed to deliver a newspaper.

El

Yes, right?

In

At the time I was selling my game stuff, something really came together. I don't know what she has.

El

If your mother is h4 with 7 children, maybe significantly less than the single or duo child of a family with 2 incomes?

Or a father who earns for 2?

Se

There's always someone who has more than yourself.

Ultimately, it doesn't matter what you have or don't have. The only thing that counts is how much love you give.

At the latest on the deathbed, we become aware of what we have missed. It doesn't matter what possessions we have and had. It will be important if we really loved and went the way of our heart…

ac

No.

https://www.kindersache.de/bereiche/kinderrechte/antworten-zu-kinderrechten/ab-wieviel-jahren-darf-man-einen-ferienjob-machen

In

True, she will have to wait until she is older.