Hey guys I don't know what to do so my friend is very affectionate and doesn't give me room to breathe He constantly wants to go out and doesn't allow me to write with boys because it is only friendly for me but he gets jealous and then becomes he is angry and says he is disappointed or he doesn't allow me to gamble with the boys on the ps4 i can no longer do what i want if i want to go out with my best friend he says he waits for you and you tell me you don't go out but then you go out with your best friend he was stressed when I went out with my best friend instead of him and I just want to break up but without him hating me because he just says to me I always am his big love of life when we're only 14 and he often says we're forever although I know that there's no one forever these days because many people separate and he tells me that he is mic h want to get married and want children with me there we're 14 and already has his future with me in front of his eyes but that is all too much for me because I'm just young and can't do that but I want to do it so that he doesn't me hates because I still like him very much as a good friend for example but he then tells his best friend directly and then he writes to me and then there's more stress and I just want to avoid something because I hate something because he doesn't like himself to defend, he always brings his best friend and last time I first wrote his best friend because I have been 11 years old, I first wrote instead of him and he then sent me a voice message where he shouted at me and told me how disappointed he was and that you don't do that and I should think about it but that's cleared up but I can't stand his jealousy anymore because I keep getting feelings and then lose again he has been there for 1 week almost 2 where I have no feelings anymore because he is too jealous and too attached and my question is how can I best tell him or can I write that I will finish without him hates directly?
He is obsessed. He'll hate you either way if you break up, but ignore that and just do it
I don't think you can prevent that. You should be honest with him and he has to live with the consequences. In my opinion, jealousy is not bad if it is limited. But with your boyfriend that is too violent, I can understand you very well.
He'll hate you no matter how, but tell him before it's too late
Sorry for saying that, but he's just a selfish friend. If he only thinks about what he wants and doesn't give your feelings and needs free space, he has lost nothing in your life. Better find someone who takes care of you.
If you break up with him, he'll be angry with you either way… Maybe not necessarily hate immediately (but it can still be).
