I have two questions about minecraft?

1. Hello, I wanted to play minecraft on my cell phone with my friends and we did that too. I wanted to send her a fa but then Xbox said that I didn't set it up so I could play with friends. Can jmd help me?

2. Hello, this is my second question and I wanted to go into a server in minecraft but the server is not coming. And it says that I didn't set it up so I could do it. Can help me and thank you if you answered.

I had the problem sometimes but I can't help you there.

However, I suspect that your microsoft account means that you are too young