I met a guy playing games 2 weeks ago (19), we got on well straight away and so we gambled together and talked like every day and understood each other very well, then suddenly he distanced himself and he didn't answer and I asked why and he just said he has no time right now because he has a lot to do, he said and then I left him alone and he answered and asked if we could clarify the matter and he apologized.
The next day we played together again he asked me and we literally played 12 hours that day and had so much fun playing and talking. Now for the funny part what happened afterwards. He left the party without a word and I asked why and he replied the next day they had a power cut or something and I don't believe him. Then an hour later he blocked and deleted me on Snapchat and Playstation for no apparent reason. We got on very well. I mean you gamble and don't talk to each other for 12 hours and then delete and block the person the next day. I don't know why he does that. I have to say it was a bit more intimate that day, he (on his own) always sent photos of him in shorts at Snapchat and then he showed more but he did it by himself and I didn't mind, but this whole one Situation is so funny, is it me that he is blocking me or what could it be? Does anyone know what it could be from what happened? And yes I know you will surely say why you rack your brains over it but it really weighs on me and we really got along so damn well.
He said it - he must have real life stress and could only have been online for a short time. But since it was almost addictive and he neglected everything, he pulled the emergency brake.
Now he can take better care of real life.
Yeah, he didn't seem to be serious or you quickly got bored for him. There are always such. Don't think too much about it.
Had a similar problem with a friend.
We even sent each other snaps longer and talked more privately about intimate things.
At some point I found interest in her.
But later I noticed that she is just the "typical" gamer who simply puts all the guys she meets in the Friedzone without hesitation.
There's nothing wrong with that per se. However, she is so brazen to take a guy from the "penalty box" when she is in the mood for one.
I don't want to be interested in this type of woman / girl, regardless of whether she is exactly my type in terms of appearance or character.
So I just broke off the contact without a word.
It's not nice or fair of mine, but I just wanted to quickly lose interest in her without unnecessarily explaining things that are difficult or impossible to understand.
I don't know to what extent that applies to you.
It may also be that he is simple, that he is an iron virgin and therefore quickly loses interest when he sees / meets girls who have already had relationships. They are just all bit * hes for him. But that would only be the case if he had found pictures of you with other guys on social networks.
Yes, only I showed him nothing of me, but he of himself and on the day we played and talked for so long he suddenly showed more of himself without I saying that he should do it, I didn't mind, I found it interesting and really liked it, and now it blocked and deleted me, you got along so well and just played and talked for 12 hours, I can't understand that.
Maybe he found you too attractive in character and doesn't think it's great that he's attracted to a girl so much?
I don't know.
Maybe he also had a girlfriend who got wind of it and forbade him.
I have to say it was a bit more intimate that day, he always sent (by himself) photos of him in shorts at Snapchat and then he showed more but he did it by himself and I didn't mind
So then the alarm bells should ring… Is it clear what he wanted?
I know something similar from women, but not in this way…
Yes, I also thought that he might have a girlfriend that he is hiding. I asked the day if he had one and he said no. He asked me every day for a week when I came to gamble and the day before yesterday he also asked. And by the way, he only saw a few normal pictures of me on Snapchat.
I see. In any case, sounds a lot like an unknown friend, whom he probably already had on the side.
Otherwise one of the strange psychological reasons I mentioned there would be possible.
