So the following problem:
I'll keep it short
I have had a lot of contact with a girl for several months (9+) (Internet)
And she had often called me hare and so. Except the last few weeks.
Since she saw on a platform that I'm writing with another girl, she suddenly called me all the time, to which I hardly reacted because it was weird. Then she asked "can I call you a hare?" I just said that I find it strange that she suddenly starts doing it in front of the other. Well, she wrote nothing for 30 minutes, looked at what we were doing and then left. 2 days later she blocked me on whatsapp and deleted it on psn.
I just wonder why? Why does she just throw away our contact. I could still write to her on Instagram and discord.
What thinks what should I do?
You have to say that I blocked her after 5 days and there she was the one who wrote to me again.
Should I go up to her now?
She is injured. Let them sulk. Maybe she'll think it over again. Otherwise you have one internet acquaintance less.
Blocking it all and back again is kindergarten! If you don't want to write to someone anymore, you can do it quite well!
From my own experience I can tell you that it can be clarified with words (even if they are short)! I personally find it a strong quality of the person who can do that!
Each of you should then accept the other's decision and be good.
Try to write them on Instagram… But not too demanding or insulting! Quite factually and well thought out. It matters a lot!
That was my only haha
I know it's kindergarten
I'll try thanks
I would probably just smile about it and tick it off.
If she overreacts so badly about something like that and even blocks you later, then well.
I myself would simply not have contacted her anymore, unless she wrote again on her own initiative and apologized. I'm someone who can very quickly forgive you a lot, but I don't run after anyone.
I've done this long enough before.
If you don't want to just tick off as "contact ended" you can write to them on the other platforms. Just tell your opinion honestly and why it blocked you because of it.
You know… That's the crux of these stupid internet flirts. So many people only live in front of the PC and live out their whole existence in the box, instead of getting to know real people outside and trying to take care of them. Well. That's the receipt for it: If it gets uncomfortable, everyone can pull out the plug! And she did that with you. In reality, it could be that you got so close to her, that maybe you were going to a meeting or something, or something that, instead of getting involved, she cut the thing. Because ohgoddogott… What now? You can speculate for a long time. Digga. Don't get involved with such things on the net. Make yourself clear, go out, meet cute mice there and train yourself in making contacts and conquering someone.
It is also very often the case that when such an Internet number becomes real, people actually face each other, the air is immediately out of breath and all emotions and feelings that had previously filled you are blown away… You are sober, so to speak '. This is because you have never 'smelled' someone, gestures, facial expressions and much more. Doesn't come across on the net.
I think it is when I make contacts on the net or something happens. : If I really start to find someone interesting or like more and more, then I also check right away whether that person is ready to give me a hand in color and real. If not - I'll say goodbye again because I have to think that there's a fake behind it or some psycho number, something or someone else.
Great.
You shouldn't give people any hopes and then show them that they have no chance. Responding to other people is unfortunately not a very common art. You can try to clarify it, but running will probably not help you anytime soon because she is injured and is probably looking for decency now. I'm sorry for you somewhere because I know both sides, but you learn from it. Therefore, you should apologize briefly (if you are serious and she means something to you) and then give her her time. At least I would
