Ps4 controller not pairing via bluetooth?

I bought a Ps4 controller to daddln a bit on the pc. Unfortunately the controller does not pair… It is found by my bluetooth stick, the controller also searches, but does not pair.

Are all other drivers for the PC up to date? In particular, Bluetooth device chipset, LAN, sound, Intel Management Engine… Windows updates? Vlt. Does the virus scanner also act in between?

Simply reset the ps4 controller by inserting a needle or something similar. There's a small hole in the back of the controller underneath the touchpad if it still doesn't work, I would try it with a cable, as henry said