As you have already read above, I have a huge crush on my work colleagues. I'm still 17, but I'll be 18 in August. However, he is already 27 years old.
We've gone out for coffee a few times while working and understand and great. We usually talk to each other for almost an hour and almost can't stop. When we're together we forget everything around us and only the two of us talk to each other.
We both like to gamble in our free time and always talk about Playstation, computer games and generally about technical devices. Now to my question:
Can I ask him if he would like to gamble? We both love fighting games (yes, I know it's rare as a woman xD, he also said) but I think it's mega cool and he seems to be celebrating it too.
How do you men find it when a woman asks you if you would like to play something together?
Serious answers only, please!
Jo you can do just like that. I'm hardly older than him myself, I like to gamble and a woman like you would just be a dream. You get along great anyway, he'll be happy and say yes.
So first I think it's great that women also like playing XD. And yes, I would definitely invite him to gamble.
Thank you for the quick answer!
Thanks for your answer! To be honest, I would rather gamble at his house, because I don't have any games that you can play with two people haha. I think so.
It's great, don't see a problem
I think a lot of men like the woman to gamble too. Just dare and ask after the meeting.
Thanks for the answer! I hope he says yes, otherwise it's a little embarrassing because I see him every day. XD
He will xD If I ask if we can't gamble or so most of them will agree to a joa
That maybe yes, but whether he wants a relationship is another topic. XD He sure doesn't dare to do that, because we're in the same department… We can't do that.
No, who is talking about a relationship? Getting to know each other better would be the first step. Then you can think about a relationship, but not immediately
If he weren't your work colleague I would say: Try your luck more than saying no or just liking you, can't happen.
You should always be careful when it comes to colleagues, especially because you already have deeper feelings. You always have to consider: how does it affect the work, if more develops but fails and it is difficult between you afterwards.
Of course, you are right. Thanks for your answer! I'll think about how I can best do it…
