I, a female (soon to be 18), know a man in the office who I like very, very much, but Corona is throwing our bill. We've chatted a lot and like each other. At the moment we don't talk that often anymore (because of Corona), because at our company you shouldn't drink coffee together in the break room. Was that with him almost every week.
How do I best invite him on an inconspicuous "date"? We both like to play Playstation. Does it get stupid if I ask him during Corona if he would like to gamble with me? Or is that too noticeable? Or is it stupid because of Corona? What do you think of that?
PS: he is 27 years old…
Do you think? Well actually don't want that haha. Just want to get to know him better… The other can wait a while longer.
Just meet up if you like each other. Corona or not. If both of you are healthy, you can meet two people. There's nothing wrong with that.
You only live once. Always giving up everything is not a good thing. As long as you don't put others in danger, everything is fine.
I would take it easy with the meeting. Don't let it be immediately apparent what you want. Get to know him better first. Similarities are always good.
Yes safe is like netflix and chill. Then just say openly that you like him and whether you can meet. So you clarify it directly
But how do I best ask him haha. He works in the same department as me… And he already had Corona, so infecting it wouldn't be so problematic.
Yes, but he's just 27 … A little too old, maybe. And well don't know if he's interested or just nice…
Yes he is too old and I would not approve of it if I were your father but it is your life and your decision. You can only find out if he's just nice or wants more by asking
My father lives further away from me and doesn't have much contact with him, so he doesn't care.
He works in the same department… Can't say: I like you, that's 1. Stupid in front of my colleagues and 2. I have to see him every day if he tells me…
Yes haha basket would of course be mad if you always see each other. But look, if he's a nice sensible guy he'll handle it calmly and not make a big deal of it.
I hope so haha Well, let's see
Good luck and give me an update if you can.
Sure I do
