The following: I recently gave a friend of mine 15 euro because he wanted something very urgently but didn't have enough money with him. I told him he didn't have to pay me back. A couple of days later, days after that we walked 12 km. After that I was very thirsty and had no money with me. I asked him if he could buy me a bottle of water. He said yes and when he came out he had an iced tea in hand and said that he wouldn't buy water for 3 euro. I said ok then.
Yesterday i needed a ps4 to redeem my psn card and he said "my parents won't allow me".
And another friend who even takes dr0g3n and alk without his parents' permission said when I needed a pc to create a bootable usb stick that his parents wouldn't allow him to do that…
Once I was missing 4-5 cents and I asked them to do it in a harvest-wise manner and they seriously said no.
If i have money i will give you something to spend in spite of our poor financial situation. Sure, sometimes they give me a drink and so on, but when I urgently need a favor they come up with "not today, my parents don't allow it, can't, can't"
no idea… I'm always nice to you and you sometimes too but as I said you are not there when you need them.
Are these friends?
That's called taking advantage, not friendship.
Don't give him anything anymore. He's stingy.
"Friendship ends with money," they say.
If you give something away, don't expect anything in return. Just stop giving away money. Or break up with people who just seem to take advantage of you.
It may be that you let yourself be exploited.
Why are you giving away 15 EUR to a friend like that? I just wouldn't do that with a friend.
They don't sound like real friends.
When my best friend heard that my girlfriend had broken up with me, he spontaneously took time off from work to pick me up at my place of work and drive me away so that my thoughts could change.
Another friend said that if I couldn't get a loan from the bank for my home, he could give me 50,000 euro and I should "pay it back to him when I can".
Another friend helped me move with his pick-up truck, even though he had previously been on duty for 25 hours and he and his wife have two toddlers at home who always need something.
25 hours of service?
Appreciate them!
Yes, you have as a trauma surgeon.
I do that every day!
