Loneliness because of relationship of best friends?

la
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Hey so i (m16) have been going to a new school with my 2 best friends since this school year. I get on very well with my classmates, even if no real friendships have emerged, which could be because everyone is at least 1 year older than me.

to get to the point: my 2 best friends (one in my class, another in parallel class) suddenly both have a girlfriend and are so good we're not there for me.

I was completely replaced by one of the two, because for a few months we had a kind of ritual to go to the big city 1-2 times a week and go to our usual shops to eat something. We always had the same opinion, so we could talk about everything, so how best friends are. In addition, if the school work allowed, we met for 1-2 hours at the playstation. Since he has the girlfriend the two have been driving every Friday and I will simply forget. We drove once in these almost 2 months. He is also very different and often does not understand my opinions.

the other friend has always been a bit more withdrawn, but we always got along very well. However, this has worsened since he got his girlfriend, because outside of school I don't hear from him anymore. I don't know if this is due to his girlfriend's religion, the relationships forbid as far as I know.

the handful of other friends i have are not going to my school, so contact is in 9/10 cases via sc or instagram.

in any case, I think it's a shame that I'm left aside and in a bad mood, which is often caused by it, being called cold. I just want to go back to the good old days because I feel lonely and find it really bad that 7-8 year old friendships "break down" so quickly.

I'm rather not looking for a girlfriend

what can I do?

Re

The friendships are not broken!

But with 16/17/18 it is just the case that - if you get caught with love - all other light years are far away.

That straightens up again - and at some point it will also catch you!

Ji

What can I do?

Find a girlfriend (or, if your tendencies go the other way: a friend).

Then you can do something as three couples and in the time that you have been playing with your friends up to now you are doing with your new relationship what your best friends are doing to their relationship at this time instead of playing.

Ta

Maybe you just talk to them and tell them exactly how you feel here just like here and then make a compromise that you drive into the city every other week and the other week he can do something with that day his girlfriend. But usually this goes back over time, because when they have just come together you want to do something every second but after a few months that should level off again and he should do something with you just like his girlfriend then what about her friends