I have very strict parents, which means that while we have tasks that are already a lot, I have to do them twice (because I may have deleted something) -17 o'clock. My mother comes at about 5 p.m. Then we check everything and if something is wrong, print out the page and copy it off again. It then lasts until 9 p.m. To 11 p.m. When everything is over, I must not spend the rest of the time on devices such as Ps4 but have to go to sleep. That will not change in the right vacation because I should still learn during the vacation (you should really relax in the vacation). Whatever (too much of a good thing).
Do you know how I could use this time besides of course learningđŸ¤” because I also want to have some variety.
My friends always ask me if I can do it online, but then I have to tell them the truth…
I would probably try to divide up the tasks and talk to your parents if possible. My parents are more relaxed about it and have been telling me since about the 8th grade: you are your lucky blacksmith. If you do it now, you're done, but don't do too much.
So if you want to play, do the chores first, but somehow try to find a healthy compromise for yourself with your parents.
Unfortunately, that doesn't work with the compromises. My mother doesn't want to listen to anything like that…
Control is good, Trust is better. It sounds to me on the part of your parents as absolutely like control, control, control.
Of course, they want you to get good grades and get a decent job. But a child's free time is not just (!) Learning.
According to your times, you sit around 10 hours before your tasks, which is definitely too long.
I would talk to your parents in more detail about it instead of you. The learning process is important. But through the above You automatically switch off methods at some point and the learning effect drifts into the negative.
The balance between leisure and learning is immensely important in order to benefit from learning in the long term.
Suggest a more effective learning plan (in the form of a calendar) in which leisure time and tasks are clearly separated and neatly arranged.
Believe me, you have to argue! If you remain factual, you show maturity and that actually convinces most parents.
I've already tried that. My mother argued against it that if there was such a plan I should gamble 15 hours a day… (I'm not even awake for so long)
Do you get a lot worse if you don't do the tasks, or not all of them? Maybe you can play for an hour while you should be studying. But if you get into big trouble, I wouldn't do it.
Yes i get Unfortunately I can't play because my mother always takes the Ps4 cable to work
This is really stupid. In my opinion, too much control from your parents. Talking will probably help.
