Hope I'm right here or someone can give me tips.
It is about my ex boyfriend having a 2 week right of access with our 4 children, ie from Saturday to Sunday.
But now it has come out that he manipulates the children by telling them that they shouldn't listen to my new partner, or mom wouldn't love them but it doesn't matter if they were bad. And more such cases.
2 of the 4 children don't even want to go to him anymore. The smallest 4 years even started crying shortly before.
Last time my son was there without his 3 siblings who were sick.
Now it came out that he is planning to bring our son to him. He has already been with the lawyer and is here looking after a caring father who he is definitely not, because the right of access is the third attempt.
Can he just bring our son to him? Because the little one says overnight everything is stupid his best friend is also stupid etc. Personally think that it is because he gets everything from his father and can play sweets until he drops and play ps4 as long as he wants.
Has anyone ever had such a situation and can tell me what I can do best now?
I appreciate any advice
I know a lot of such stories.
It is best that you go to the youth welfare office. They also know such stories and will be able to advise you well.