We divorced because it just did not work anymore. My wife then left with the kids for her new lover whom she had already made warm in the marriage.
The kids are 8 and 10 and have reached the iPhone Playstation age and already they are sent to me…
My wife gets from me 800 ocken maintenance, even extra 400 euro child benefit and another subsidy from the state. So a total of 1200 euro per month for 2 children also lives with him and does not have to pay rent…
The funny thing is that the old repeats that the money is not enough but earlier she was employed full-time and today she is employed only part-time. If she wants to kidnap here? Money problems certainly has none!
The 2 tells you that she has no money sends them to me and then I'm the gelackmeierte when I say no. I got rid of them yesterday and told them that my mom gets 800 euro and 400 euro from the state and that she has money for the new iphone and otherwise she can ask the greasy Freddy.
Well no 30 min was the ex with a new Prada or Diesel handbag (looked aufjedenfall expensive) and makes me an announcement that I can't tell the children something and I can let something jump because I anyway deserve so good otherwise I will be my children see more RARELESS in the future.
I then asked her if that was a threat and she "After today's action, the children willingly will not talk to you anymore"
So this woman is clever and will set up my children only nonsense so they do not want to see me anymore…
What should I do about it? She wants to fool me, right?
Unfortunately, as you write about her, with your respect for the mother of your children, it is not far off. Before you point your finger at others, please start with yourself.
By the way, children with 8 and 10 years definitely do not need an iPhone.
What should I do about it?
Your right of access to the emergency can be judicially determined.
Do not let yourself be influenced by the manipulation of the ex and do yourself a favor and NEVER talk bad about them and / or the new guy in front of the kids. That's not good, if your wife should turn on the youth welfare office…
You should come before that anyway and audition there if you could help you, as your wife threatens you with child abduction. However, you should always give the loving father and understanding ex, because otherwise you'll be right down there anyway!
So I do not want you both, I do not know you. But you can't calculate to your children what your ex has in the month. That does not belong.
Children at this age have no idea what value money has. And you do not even need a cell phone at this age.
Yes I have permanent right of access but if the children do not want to see me then I can't do anything I can't force them or the court?
Yes, I also think that no one braufhen why I pay so yes not my children and my ex so. Not fit
