Why is online dating so difficult these days?

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I noticed more and more that in the area of online dating it is becoming increasingly difficult to get dates to get to know generally reasonable people with whom you can chat even if it's just chatting. I have written to women from time to time with the text "Do you want to go with me yes maybe tick to" very often he has drawn many but have put it so blatantly on the gold scales and have taken it to heart and said I was sick I should go see a psychologist because you don't write something like that if you don't know each other. Or if I have a match I write every now and then, oh we have a match when is the wedding "some get in and do with others put it back on the gold scales and declare me stupid. It is the same with the general letter Women always want you to be creative, you are, and you write an individual message, then it doesn't fit either (yes, everyone sees the message differently but definitely not so differently.) On the other hand, there are also nice conversations and makes a date and I feel fine It happened twice in quick succession that I was suddenly blocked and the date was therefore invalid, or this situation, which I think every man knows, has a nice chat and suddenly, out of nowhere, nothing comes from the woman anymore, the message is often read but sometimes they just erased or the match is dissolved. I particularly noticed these types of women who are hanging around there, who open up their egos want to polish because they need confirmation who need the more followers on Instagram who confuse the Lovoo with Twitch to stream there, who have signed up there to fool guys with intent and who complain about men who only want sex but are on present the pictures so that it comes across as if the woman was only interested in sex. Back then, online dating was even easier, you quickly made dates, you treated each other with respect and today it's exactly the opposite. I also always hear exactly what I wrote from known people, so I'm not the only one who has had this experience. I have now really got into the desire for online dating or getting to know women in general since the whole thing is just a waste of time. But why is that so in the relevant platforms these days? There must be a reason for that.

Ha

I'm no longer online, precisely because most types are either just too lazy to write or are not looking for a real relationship or because they are just looking for a meeting and if you don't want to but get to know each other by writing then wants to look for another immediately… Or guys who are all 3 in one.

go

I have already had enough of this experience. It is also interesting that most people only write a "Hey" to you and then ignore it, e.g. If you Ask how they're doing. I guess most people just want to check their "market value".

in

Yes, if the woman writes only with Hey.

br

Well, communication among the "absent" is simply more difficult and complicated. The message finds its expression without your real face, no wonder if some take it wrong.
I have to say, I have never been on such a platform before, but what I hear from my friends these days is that most sites are really all about sex.
Sad for those who liked to do it, but then that's probably superficial now.
In general, relationships have become incredibly superficial nowadays and only getting to know each other.
Most people on such platforms are not (mostly) looking for a great love for life.

my heartfelt advice to you:

give up online dating and try your hand at getting to know each other and dating.

My friend and I came together through classic dating and have been together for several years now ☺️

Th

Try Tinder Gold