Left for an influencer?

My partner met a streamer on Twitch who plays exactly the same games as he does and who always has good conversations during the streams. He raves about her and has now also left me because he is so taken with her. Because they are so similar in area of interest. He literally showered her with compliments and was totally motivated because she lived only an hour away from him.

It totally hurts me. I also have the feeling that she just sees him as part of her community because she also wants to be successful on the platform and is currently still attached to her ex-relationship

How do I best cope with this?

By realizing how stupid your ex acted.

In all honesty: If he leaves you because of an online acquaintance, just because he likes to gamble with her, then he would also leave you for completely different things in the future.

You find someone better.

I'm sorry for you, but if your ex is so stupid and rashly acting like this, try to be glad you got rid of him. This course of action is so immature…

So she just optically corresponds completely to his type and in terms of hobbies they are generally very similar.

But it's still difficult😔

"You and them, that never works, that doesn't even work somehow.

Driving a man crazy, no one like her can do that.

You and she never work, just don't get involved with her.

You are just too good to be their jumping jack.

And besides, you can tell her - you belong only to me.

But if you need their hot looks for your ego, I can wait until you can see clearly, or end up on your stomach… "(Source: Michelle," You and them, that never works ")

If so, wait until he sees clearly and knows what he had in you. There's nothing more you can do at the moment.

I wish you all the best and a lot of strength. And: Perhaps better to end with horror than horror without end.

Other mothers also have nice sons…

I can only say that he has seen very little in your relationship and that it is the best that he is gone.

Be glad that he ended it instead of continuing to be with you just to not be alone (there are those too). But it ended when he noticed that there's someone for whom he feels more and probably shares more interests with him, even if nothing comes of them

Exactly, because it is of course more mature to be with someone you no longer have feelings for. That he fell in love with someone he most likely would not stand a chance with is only second, the main thing is that he developed feelings for another, and in this case it is decent to break up.

Well, getting involved in this internet pseudo-relationship sh… Is stupid and immature, yes.

But normally you can't influence who you fall in love with.

Ok, but at least you don't run after such a pipe dream…

So she just optically corresponds completely to his type and in terms of hobbies they are generally very similar.

So what? If I left my girlfriend for every Attractive Woman with the same hobbies, I would change my girlfriend every day. That's not a reason for a relationship. And the way you describe it, it's not even like he is with her now.

Sorry but what kind of rag is that, do you really want to be with someone like that? Be glad he showed the real me so early.