I have a problem with mine - I'm not even sure if we call ourselves that, but do not care - friend. He is extremely boring. Do not get me wrong, I think he is very attractive, he looks good, he is tall and funny and sweet and attentive… But he is somehow very angry. For one, he never talks about his friends and I'm starting to really doubt that they exist. For another, he does not do anything but really NOTHING except to play with his Xbox with his 100 games or movies. And as if it were not strange enough, the only films he watches are animes. Really nothing else. And he does not even go out, he does not do anything, if I want to do something with him he changes the subject. I feel like this is a joke, honest. At the same time I'm so in love with him as a person because there were times when we did something together. I do not want to lose him I just do not know what to do Yes, I've already talked, yes I do something alone and no it is not enough because you should do something with the partner, otherwise the sense of the relationship is somehow missed I think…
Asking for suggestions and ideas
Obviously you have completely different interests - that's a very bad basis for a relationship.
You can only win if you separate from him as soon as possible.
That's the only option if you want to save yourself.
Such a does not change.
Just say it in a nice way… Say you're sick and tired of just sitting there with him all the time… Going for a walk, or swimming in the beautiful weather… It does not have to be anything special Let's go out and talk… And if you think he's trz all the time on the phone then just take it away smile at him kiss him and say "do not take care of your phone but to me!" Of course, in a friendly tone.so that he does not freak out I hope my answer was helpful (LG
Sorry, because of the spelling mistakes ^^
"Such a"? Wow, as if he did something bad just because he is himself.
Since I can only advise you what you do not want to read: Disconnect, please.
Against gambling addiction and lack of own drive nothing helps, from what you have tried…
And a therapist can control gambling addiction, if he wants to do it himself… But being enough is a character trait that is stubborn and against which no herb can cope.
It comes through again and again and the longer you are together, the more it will, even if it has disappeared in between.
In your eyes, the funny thing is perfect in others. I personally like anime looking gamblers. Also know girls who are like that. Does not everyone have to be the same and celebrate every weekend.
You do not seem to fit together and once your pink glasses are gone you will not find anything great about him. The only thing you seem to like about him is his looks. So you better "disconnect" and find suitable partners.
Thank you for the asterisk. 😊