Whenever I meet new friends and they sleep with me, they steal something (brush, figure, jewelry, or even an expensive Nintendo game and much more). After I always notice that something is gone, they admit it and give it back to me, but it hurts a lot… I don't trust anyone anymore and I really can't invite anyone to my home… Why do you do that? More than 10 people have already stolen something from me. I can only say that I have a lot of things in my room and that some look astonished when they see my room but we're not rich now. Can't you somehow prevent people from getting the idea of stealing from me? I tidied up and cleared drawers as much as possible, but firstly I have a small room, secondly they don't hold back from going to my drawers and boxes and thirdly they always take a close look at everything in my room beforehand… It doesn't work that way further because after someone stole from me I break off the friendship… Because it is a mess to steal
People who steal from you are not friends.
First invite no one to you.
Take a closer look if you choose as a friend. And first of all, don't invite yourself. You don't need 10 and more friends, 1-2 are enough…
Somehow you should change your friends' selection. Even if someone opens my cupboards or drawers without being asked, they can go right away. That is not how it works. (Of course, this does not apply to close friends who come and go with me, and who I'm often with. They can do that.)
Friends are as rare as an island in the ocean. Experience should make you smart.
Are they really friends then? I think the best way would be to just talk to people about it and distance yourself from it or just not go to you for now. I'm sorry for you, must be really ugly.
