Gambling addiction with the friend (22) hardly bearable?

He does not change his behavior. I'm just thinking about breaking up because he just turns the clock right after school and calls his buddies. I will also be asked, if I had no plans for the evening. I do not mean to sound overbearing, but I do not deserve that. No girl. His mother threatens him already with the ejection because it hurts her that he does not organize the time well balanced. Is it really that easy to drudge into the game? I mean I used to play Nintendo, all the cool games but with a time limit. On the console we have at home I play every now and then but eventually it is enough?

And I do not want to reproach the men with "sexualizing" that only they have gambling addiction. But if you go by my surroundings - school, family, acquaintances - all boys / men are at least 5 hours a day gambling and talking non stop about it.

You can't help him unless he realizes that he has a problem (if he has one, the duration of the game is not the determining factor). I would quit.

She may not donate to someone else

You write SpielSUCHT. That's a disease, like acne.

The addict can't say "Oh, my actions are unreasonable, I'll leave it alone." just as little as one can say "I do not want to have acne".

Means for you: It will probably remain only the separation. If you are married, then you will work on the play, alcohol addiction or anything else of the partner. Success possible, but uncertain. But if not married, look for a partner who has fewer problems.

Man alive! But we all got lucky again that you were in the right place at the right time.

That means?