What does cell phone ban etc bring?

He
- in Nintendo
17

I have been getting all kinds of bans in the last 2 months, maybe 4 times my cell phone. I'm also not allowed to meet TV, tablet, computer, Nintendo, friends, listen to the radio

I keep getting punishments for all kinds of things - but my sister doesn't do anything if she does the same

This is just unfair and what should it do except that I'm pissed off?

Ug

Unfortunately I'm not in your parents' heads, but I find it questionable from an education point of view to punish one while the other child does not have one.

br

It is best to talk to your parents in peace and try to explain to them factually what you have described to us here.

Because of your writing style, however, I get the feeling that your parents don't do it for no reason.

He

Sorry that I do not make any effort on the Internet and I hurry I also have a 2 in German on the certificate;)

Is

I find it all pretty pointless - especially because it only affects you,

Vlt. Would you like to call the number against grief.

br

Didn't actually relate to your German but to your thinking or behavior.

I'm not interested in your German grade, what should I do with it?

He

Ne definitely not - I don't even have my cell phone and even when I'm not on the phone our walls are very thin

Is

Then unfortunately you can't be helped.

He

What does my thinking have to do with punishments? Writing style let me point out that you are getting upset about my spelling and grammar

br

Your (un) mature probably has something to do with the punishments.

He

What is the point of not being allowed to do all sorts of things? And what do you expect from a 13 year old?

br

What is the point of not being allowed to do all sorts of things?

First wait, you will understand in a few years at the latest.

And what do you expect from a 13 year old?

A little more maturity. But don't worry, it's okay. I'm not going to pass this on.

He

Great what will bring me in a few years - nothing at all * - * and from my point of view you weren't exactly helpful

Za

Have you discussed this with your parents in peace? Without shouting, insults and accusations à la "… But the others…"?

What do you think? To achieve something, punishments should also be clearly communicated.

Nobody can answer here what that should bring.

Ma

Nonsense, beangato, he has to behave.

Ma

Behave! You don't have to recommend more.

Is

It has nothing to do with "behaving".

I have also punished my children - but everyone. A child must also be allowed to be a child.

Ma

Right, but do you know how both siblings "behave" at home?