My friend and I always do that with our son (1) so we share everything 50/50. Well, we live in two different flats and of course I pay for my son's grooming products, food and clothes and I like it a month, but sometimes there are extra expenses, like a new child seat and gifts for a birthday and for Christmas.
For the child seat he owes me 60 euro, for the birthday 50 and for Christmas 20 euro.
For me that's a lot of money, because I'm just about to make my car driver's license and stuck in the money 4 driving hours in it.
I ask him about 60 euro since September, since November after 50 euro and since December after 20 euro. He deserves good, only he is so incredibly stingy. He prefers to spend his money on himself, tuning parts for the car or games for the Ps4. Every time he is back on eBay or eBay classifieds on the go, I almost raced out again, because he has "saved" for it.
Yes, I know, he is an egoist and in some eyes not a good father, that's the subject of debate, but that's not the topic here either.
How can I get 100% of my money? Since then, every method is right for me.
Why does not he pay for maintenance? If you can't agree alone, then go to the youth welfare office.
It is also much easier if he pays you a fixed maintenance than if every single purchase is charged extra.
Maintenance he apparently pays.
If the question arises, were the extras previously made that way? Did you talk about it with him before buying the birthday present and he agreed with this gift in the amount. Same the child seat. Were price and need previously agreed?
Or did you simply buy, without consultation.
If you bought without consultation - why should he pay for it.
If you both had agreed on these things and need and you can prove that somehow, (WhatsApp etc) then write in the ne request for payment by drop-in.
If you already get maintenance, you should get by with the child support and child support.
Your driver's license is none of your friend's.
just make gifts that you can really pay. Otherwise, he should buy her from his money
