I'm a 14 year old girl and need your help:
I think it's good if children and adolescents help with something at home. I also like to help my parents. I often wash, weed weeds, cook and much more. My Ektern is happy that I do that too. If I do not do something I'll be lazy right away. My brother sits at the PS4 and does nothing the whole day. He is 12. He never gets into trouble with my parents. NEVER. It excites me so much that he never does anything / has to do: I have often talked to my parents but they just say: your brother will have to do something. If I do not wash off or that's how it goes: You do not blablabla all day
What can I do?
That is bad. You could give your brother small tasks like clearing the table or carrying out the trash and if he refuses then go to your parents and say I'm not lazy, my brother does not want to do anything either.
Remember that he is still a little too young. He can do little.
Thanks for the answer. He does not even take out the garbage he just plays his fortnite.
Know the feeling too. Maybe you can talk to your parents about it or you give him the task he should do. You can also bet with him who, e.g. Faster is wiping in the table or something.
It helped me to simply refuse to do what then my parents have generated that what is wrong and today I get no more trouble if I do not do something (my big brother does not matter but he also gets annoyed about it since then I over and over again my parents have responded) is not nice if you or someone else gets worse but only so you learn and maybe your brother will do something.
Thank you for your answer. Actually, I do not want to do anything then I'm just as stinkfaults pig
Write down the task you have done for each task. Then the time. And the time you needed.
do that for a week and then when your parents say you do not do anything nee week on data that you can preach to them. And then you can ask how much your brother has already done.
This can be taken as an impulse to sit together at the table. And then set a fixed task area. You get xyz and your brother abc.
Then you do your stuff and he does his. And if he leaves his leagues, that's not your job.
Furchbar. When he turns 13, tell your parents that if he does not help, then if he's a student, he'll be completely helpless and you're not going to take it anymore, you'll move out as fast as you can, even if your brother does not do something. Maybe that will make that think.
Thank you. That's a good idea. I think so I will do that.