My friend and I rarely do anything (if then Saturday). And I always have to suggest something, otherwise we would never come out. Otherwise, we come from work, he goes to the Playstation until he gets to bed and I'm busy somehow and then go to sleep. Have the feeling, for him everything would be as always. If I speak to it, he pretends to exaggerate
There are people who want to relax after work and have their rest, especially when it was a very busy day. I know that about me.
Of course I can understand it if you want to do some business, but the weekends are always very good. During the week you can't do so much in the evening, except a TV evening.
He's probably just a couch potato. He does not mind if he stays at home and does "nothing". He'll come with you if you suggest something. I can understand that this is stupid for you, that you always have to suggest something. If you do something, how is he? Is he having fun or not fancy it?
And you could play with him, that's how you sweat together. Just ask him if you can play. Then you are also interested in his interests.
I feel like he's just doing something to satisfy me. He has hardly any ideas what we could do and is then usually in a bad mood, so dead is silent
Hm okay well with the ideas is just so ne thing. For me that's the way I would like to do something, but then have no idea what… Maybe that's the case with him, but if he is also in a bad mood, no idea then I do not know if that makes sense to you.
But anyway. I think he would be happy if you play with him. In his view, you never do that with him, I suppose. It just shows that you are interested. And otherwise I'm not sure if your lifestyle really fits together.
Then he is not the type who likes to do something. He makes it more likely. You will not be able to change that. He is just like that.
Your friend is just the type who likes to gamble and reluctant to do something. He is finished after work and then wants to experience nothing, but relax. Sounds like my partner.
That's why I think it's important in a relationship, even if you have common hobbies. I also like to play z. That's why we play together. It bothers me less. Do not you have common hobbies?
You will not be able to change anything because he is the way he is. He feels compelled to undertake business. Vll he sees it as well as my partner alone enough to be close to you and nice enough
Whereby we do something from time to time, because I also like things like museums. Does your have no other interests?
