I apologized today to my girlfriend with flowers and many other beautiful things after letting her cry alone yesterday (before that she asked me to go a thousand times), as I very much disappointed her (I did not cheat her or anything like that are other private reasons). I promised her that it would never happen again and asked her to come to my birthday party today. She calms down a bit and says that she might come along but she thinks it over. I went home to get ready. My guests came, they did not. Then I accidentally made the same mistake and she found it out through friends. She sent me a voice memo crying that she hates me and that you can't buy her with money. She sent me a picture of how she destroyed all the things I gave her and threw her into a garbage bin (things were very expensive and I worked really hard for this money). My Ps4 was still at her home, she threw them out the window! I've hurt her many times already, but I have to admit that, but something?! This goes too far! I have little money (she knows that) and the most valuable item I own has destroyed her?!
What should I do in your opinion? Let alone, after all, I have hurt her very much.
On the one hand, she has not done that for no reason and it is right for you, on the other hand it was completely covered. You do not destroy things that belong to someone else. If she has not already done that, I would definitely leave her. Does not seem to fit anyway, and because of this action you should not be with someone like that. He is mentally ill. They should pay you the PS4 or whatever has really heard you have, otherwise there's a message. And in the process of ending it with a few "nice" words. Treat your closest friends better!
Regardless of what happened before this action, she has with the "lintel" of the game console, which at least does not belong to them, the fact of property damage can be easily displayed and held accountable.
Either you fix it with her privately (which I would try first), or you go to the police and show them about it.
But your "relationship box" can't solve the police or a judge.
The fact that she destroys your property is fundamentally a criminal offense. So much for her misconduct.
But now to you: she's obviously hurt because you've done something stupid. You excuse yourself exuberantly and instead of standing like a real man to your word do you do that again a day later?
Do you notice yourself, right? In other words, do you even notice anything? Let the woman live her life in peace so she can find a man who respectfully treats her. Apparently, a Kasper had to endure it.
The most valuable thing you had was a stupid game console and not the woman by your side. Let me take it easy on you. Since you can read out your entire prioritization. All you need to know.
Would act similarly. So I'm honest. I've broken something for impulsive reasons. For example Cell phone what my ex has lent me. She wanted compensation for that, and she got it. His mistakes are just now. Would have wanted to have replaced that in any case. For example Used console or money which costs a used one. Gifts are not covered.
I would not do police. Only when it ends now and it is really over, as well as does not recognize for standing straight + justifies that with your mistakes. Error from person A (du) rarely justifies error from person B (you).
and your mistakes. I looked curious. Can you let me know anonymously? After all, you are already so far that you realize your mistakes. That's great. I will not judge you.
Boy Boy. Such a kak answer. Sorry… Completely contradicting and claims as if you know what's right for them… Based on that you do not even know his mistake.
how old are you? Every 3 is a stranger in a relationship. The really love even overcome that. You know what exactly is between the two of them… In addition to that, you close to others. So honest… Shut the foot up! You flawless man
I read your answer very carefully.
"obviously happens him right"
You never know the age of the two. Two kids. "howling" does not say anything about the mistake itself. And because of your lack of information to make such a statement for someone unknown testifies ehr of your not so high intellect. What ever. If you stop every last bit and take your legs in the smallest crunch, even a loving one… I'd call you "assi" to stay with your words. Sorry… Is not meant to be personal. Do not know you. I'm only amused by the limited spirits that give partial answers.
The very fact that you project your conception of right and wrong to others speaks volumes. Anyone who can look objectively and have more human knowledge than his own point of view, and to proclaim these as WORLDWIDE… Bam. You are either a small inexperienced Pups or simply punished with severely limited minds. All the best to you and hopefully sometime bigger horizon
Errors are mistakes and should be avoided, so he should improve.
exactly. In which one never makes mistakes, one develops oneself.
People who make big mistakes and learn from them certainly achieve more size, experience and happiness than you, so at least the appearance.
I do not consider you to be evil. I respect your opinion, but do not name it good and be silent.
