Why do you all think that my best friend and I want more?

So, since September my best friend is with her boyfriend. And through the relationship of the two, I'm also good friends with him until we're even after 4 months best friends.
We write a lot and understand each other and nothing else is great. Went with my girlfriend a few times with him and stayed there as well.

In October, that's how he and I wanted to meet alone, which we did. But his girlfriend got it to zero (so my girlfriend) so I have not written for a week, with him to keep a distance, so that all see that there's nothing.

But the gap was stupid for him and me both because we understand each other well and do not want a distance, because of a friendship.

and now we were both at Silvetser with him and I was there for 4 days and she was 7 days. And now I have two times with her again without him and have stayed there that it is also easier because he lives 50 km further away and you have to drive two hours otherwise.

My girlfriend said it's okay, but now she was crying yesterday, even though nothing happened.

And everybody said that it's stupid that I'm there and his mother said what I would be for a friend and sleep with him twice in a week. I have to say that he slept in his bed and me in the next room on his sofa.

We ate and talked and PS4 played that was it

Everyone tries to talk something out and get involved and I hate that

Can woman and man just be friends
Opportunity makes love!

Most people shut themselves off from everyone else.

And if they can't imagine themselves, a - just platonic friendship with a person of the opposite sex, then they simply think it impossible!

Wishing you all the best!

PS - Stop… The doctors - and - Let people talk

Because many think that a friendship between a man and a woman is not possible. Most of the time, one of the two falls in love. I also know hardly any cases where this really worked.

Do your Boyfriend and her boyfriend understand as well as he and you? Evtl she is afraid because you get along with him better. She fears he might fall in love with you even if you do not want him.