I (m, 21), she 18
me: Application phase for design studies
she: two more months until she graduated from high school
I: I live in the Kleve district
she: lives in Herne, a good 2 hours by train
I know her voice, so it's not a fake profile ;-)
she looks fantastic, attractive and has really remarkable professional goals, is a very hardworking student (will probably get her Abi with a 1.1 grade), is currently writing a novel, just like me, plays PS4 with friends every now and then, me rather not like that, but maybe I'll get a PS4 soon simply because I've never gambled
SO:
So she's busy, I'm busy. She has her goals, I have mine.
Where we will ultimately be drawn, i.e. Which city, is still unclear.
We have common interests and like to write on Insta (she doesn't have her cell phone number yet).
She recently drew my attention to the fact that I was near her when I was visiting a friend in Herne.
Of course it would be childish to believe that she wanted to "invite" me to her, but I thought: that's right, I should use that to finally meet her
What do you all mean? What are your experiences with contacts / relationships with people you have met online? Should I ask her if we want to meet? Or do you think the timing is bad?
So in general you should be careful at such meetings. You don't know if she really is the girl you think she is. But since you're a boy, that's more practical. If you don't have a problem with a long distance relationship, that's fine. A friend of mine had a long-distance relationship with a girl (they both lived 5 hours apart) and that actually worked out pretty well. I would just say that you don't know the girl that well yet. Personally, I always find something like that difficult. I mean you only wrote to each other. If I were you, I'd just ask her to meet up.
If you like her and you want to get to know her, just ask her and tell her that you can understand it well when she doesn't have time because of high school graduation. If she doesn't want to (or if it's just too early or really stressful), she has an excuse (abistress) ready, which makes it less embarrassing for both of you. In this case, you can just wait and see if she'll get in touch later and ask you to meet. Or maybe she'll accept right away and want to get to know you! Nothing ventured nothing gained!
With this in mind: LG and good luck!
Ah, well, I haven't seen it before, thank you very much!
I know her voice.
Thanks anyway.
