How does he get the interest back?

I would be very grateful for help because I'm finished with my Latin.

I had a friend, we were very happy and in love like never before, until we moved together. Once he noticed what it means to live independently and not always get everything from mom, he became more and more moody and retired, I got no more love. I did everything for him to show him that I love him. He was always very happy, but unfortunately never came back. The next point is my dog, we got the little fellnase together, but when we got the apartment, he did not want her anymore and wanted to force me to bring her to the shelter, which of course I did not want. As a result, I had to move out again. He has started to think more about himself and his desires, like the best and fastest car, hundreds of ps4 games or tattoos. He always marginalized me until I drew the line and ended the relationship. It was quiet for a few weeks and there was radio silence until we met again and again. He said he wants me back but he does not do anything about it, he does not fight and shows really little interest. He has now brought the new car and behold, I've been hired back. However, when he is with me, he always says that he loves me and wants to change because he knows that I did not deserve that, then holds the insight times 1-2 days and he behaves like an idiot, whereupon again These statements come that he changes and he is sorry.

He often says that he himself realizes that he is not behaving correctly and wants to change it, he often says it in tears and then I hope again that his words are voices.

Then it comes to the fact that he still very often hangs with Mama. He has to go to her every day, always set the alarm clock as early as possible to come to her and when I ask him if we want something nice, it always comes down to saying that he is with his mom. This is not an excuse, his mom lives next to me and he is really several times a day with her and leaves me like to sit for it, as it is more important to drink tea with mom. I do not say anything because I know the family is important, but it's really tough the relationship between the two. He also has no opinion of his own and what Mama says is always right.

I know you sure think that would be the end of the line, but I can't let go.

You should learn to let go. Obviously you do not have the same needs and expectations of relationships, there's not much to help.

So you know all life long to play the third violin…

not even now you are in the first place.

work on your self-confidence and do not make the same mistake again

I accidentally typed unhelpful, I did not mean I'm sorry.

I gave up everything for him, I'm afraid that after the end stroke I'm even worse and I miss him too much.

What do you want from us now? Pity? You've noticed what kind of a guy he is and how important you are to him. It is up to you to end this tragedy. If you continue to play his emotional slave, you can't help.

You have to accept that has long been over. Only you still hold on to it

if you feel sick, take your dog and go for long walks… Your dog and your psyche are happy… You are not dependent on him. Live your own life, a friend is always just the icing on the cake

No, I did not want pity, I just wanted to know if there was a way in which he could become the old again and how I could arouse the interest again.

But there's no guidance, if he does not want to fight for you, then he does not deserve you either.

Do not you understand that?
Why do you want someone as a friend who does not even make an effort and at least tries to save this relationship.

No, this method does not exist. He can't become the old man because he was never different. You just did not see all sides of him when you were not together. So you can be wrong. This has already happened to other women (and men). At some point you have to realize then that you have been mistaken in the chosen partner and then draw the necessary consequences. Even if that is painful.

Probably because I have hope and believe his words, because he fought so hard for me back then.

But I guess you're all right, thank you

It's better for you, even if it's hard for you to forget it.
I wish you all the best and good luck, hopefully you will find someone who loves you as much as you are and also fights for you.