Ps5 or Xbox Series S?

Which console do you get

But then the Series X:

better design
better controller
quieter
faster loading times
Really good value for money with the Game Pass

We've always been PS players since the PSX.

I also like the PS4 controller somehow more. I don't get warm with the Xbox controller (have one for PC). With my wife, that's about the same.

The Xbox should be stronger than the PS5, but should (all according to posts here at Girlfriend) get the same games that Microsoft brings out on PC. Therefore crossplay only between Xbox and PC. And in contrast to the PS5, the Xbox should also get less exclusives.

If that's true, the Xbox would be nothing but a "PC light" and then I can grab the even more powerful PC and connect the controller there.