What do you say or exaggerate?

My husband does not have work at the moment, he never comes by himself or he wants to have a baby, take it or go for a walk, he likes to jog or even go shopping himself. The baby is 6 months old. Nevertheless, why does he never think of doing something together? Or is he sleeping until 10-11 in the morning just because he's playing xbox the whole night?

He is 29 I 22

Is that normal?

Tell him clearly what you expect. And hug the child in his arms, so that he gets used to his father role. By itself he does not get the idea to relieve you, so help him on the jumps.

No I do not use my child as a plaything I do not give the child to someone who does not want it at all

Ask for his cooperation and make suggestions for joint ventures.

A child needs mother and father!

But I also have a suspicion:

Could it be that he feels "useless" because he has no work at the moment?

It is quite possible that he currently has depressive features.

Then it would be very important for him and his self-esteem to find a new job soon.

Please support his efforts and "strengthen his back".

How should he get used to the child if you tell him he does not want it? Men are often unfamiliar with babies and have certain fears of doing something wrong. Show him how it's done, then he can do it too. Or stay with your attitude, not to leave it to him - but then does not complain that he does not come by itself. Also you are responsible, that the child has contact with both parents.

Is your husband applying for a new job and going to job interviews? That would be much more important to me.

That a man can do little with a baby or is afraid of doing something wrong happens. This can change when the child starts walking and talking.