My boyfriend is playing all day and half the night… I'm standing in front of his playstation and xbox in third place… I've already tried to make him realize that I feel totally neglected and that it feels like I'm the only one Maid who cleans and cooks and blocks it from time to time. I do not know anymore what to do, I live together and I have the feeling I have no time to spend with him at all, I just do not know how to explain to him that I miss his attention and love.
There can't do much, but at the latest when you are not there for two weeks, he might notice something
"I just do not know how to make it clear to me that his attention and love goes away."
You could just tell him that.
Oh well.
1. Talk
2. Arrange dates
3. Set ultimatum
4. Be consistent (and accordingly away)!
Unfortunately, I just always get something like "it's not like that."
Then take the consequences if it's as bad as you say.