Can you play in pairs with the Nintendo switch if everyone removes a controller from the switch? Or do you have to buy a controller again to play in pairs?
The Joy-Cons can be used as independent controllers, so yes.
But that's not really comfortable.
You can use the two joycons on the side of the switch for 2 players.
That depends on the games. Mario Kart or Mario Party, i.e. Games that are designed for local multiplayer, also work if everyone uses a Joy Con.