So I gave my brother's girlfriend a Nintendo game and she was really happy. (My brother or she never gave me anything, I never expected anything.)
Then they bought a pack of ice cream a few days ago and 2 days later I asked if I could have one, and it just said no even though there was still a lot? While it was called no, did the girlfriend play the game?! Isn't that completely ungrateful? I felt bad. Would you mention that or just ignore it and 'forget' it and never give anything again?
That was not the first time either, for example my brother never really gave me anything and I always gave him lots of things for his birthday, such as. Expensive DLCS or games and he is just stingy when I ask for a candy or an ice cream? This is totally stupid!
I can totally understand you and would tell him that it is very poor to be so stingy about ice cream or sweets
Since consciousness is obviously missing, leave it
but - next time donate nothing and see how he reacts… Then you can set off
I can understand that, but I wouldn't go into that any further now. It is best if you stop giving them gifts.
You should never give anything just to expect the same thing yourself.
I made the same mistake. Now I don't give my brother anything anymore. He only gets something again when he learns to give. Apart from that, I don't have infinite money and he always wanted very expensive things 😅
Just don't give them anything anymore. They only learned to get something from it without having to give.
Just don't give him anything anymore. Obviously he has a long lead or little empathy. I think he doesn't mean it badly but doesn't know it otherwise You always give him lots of presents and don't mind if nothing comes back is practical.
In your place, I would simply not give him anything anymore and that is the end of it.
And if he then notices and should complain, I would clearly tell him my opinion that you feel fooled.
You don't even get ice cream from him…
I never expected what it says but if I also want an ice cream that costs a maximum of 2 euro individually, is that completely inappropriate or not?
Yes this time it was not that bad because I didn't want the game anyway and that was mine and the girlfriend always wanted it then I said she should have it but then I was sad that you always got something as small as that ice is so stingy
Yes, it is not nice if there's no echo at all - I do not know if it is stingy, at least a lack of social awareness
But you expected them to at least give you ice cream. But you only taught them to take. They don't seem to know any parts.
Sure, that's bad for them, but unfortunately, something like that comes from giving big gifts. As I said, I made the same mistake.
If I can give I give
I really don't expect anything in return if one comes - well, if not - also well.
Somewhere, comes back when I need something - where I haven't given anything.
It's a cycle, but I'm not counting on.
Offsetting does not work in this society (anymore).
But coming back to your question, it's at least rude
Stay calm
Okay if you mean