I have the following problem.
In March of this year I separated from my ex. Then he had to move out of my apartment. I let him rest everything and unfortunately was not very smart and let him get his things without me there. He also took a few things from me. Although not big expensive but it was my stuff. 3 games and a controller both of the Ps4 and bedding, etc. (I own a Ps4 which is why I would like to have them again) to which he left his scrap because he did not pay me. I have written to both of them on several occasions, also that he should take his winter tires and the scrap along with me since it is not mine. Then over half a year, he finally wrote back that he wants his tires and some pieces of furniture he did not want to take along and wanted to get me to say so. Then I said that I like to give him the things if he would bring my things. Now he wants to tell me he has nothing of it, while the things are deliberately taken out where they were and my apartment clearly so I can be sure that they are no longer there. He has already sold off our relationship stuff from friends and ex girlfriends (no, I do not know why I got into it) so what should I do? I'm working on the principle and I wanted my stuff back a long time!
Write things off and block them. Then dispose of his scrap. Mostly it is easier to write off the loss instead of dealing with the person again and again.
You're right is an idea I just do not feel like he then comes with a court drama for tires for which he has no car and a mirror
Then give him the things, he should be happy. But look at the time you are not there, but a friend / girlfriend who can give it then. So you do not have to deal with him anymore. Spares the nerves scary.
Wanted eig with his ex to give him the things again. That spares nerves too scary😂 because I know that he really will not say anything and just take his things.
Throw away his scrap - if he complains later, you can say that he had a lot of chances to pick it up and not have to mess around with it in your apartment. What you own, like games etc.: If you have a receipt, try to get it back somehow. However, if it is not of great value, I would forget it. It always comes up with new potential for discussion, which could be avoided.
Leave the games and break the contact completely. Ask an uninvolved then who is there and returns the things and then you are best not there at the time and then consistently block everywhere.
Alright… Leaves a bitter unfair aftertaste
The real strength lies in being above such things. Yes, it is unfair, but as I said, the nerves are worth more than material.
You can warn him. Set a deadline of 2-4 weeks.
After that, he can't legally sue you if his things are on the scrap.
Unfortunately, I can't do that anymore. I should have done that at the time, but unfortunately he only wrote it via whatsapp and he did not make it for six months. Now he wants to be fast stuff and just admitted to have more stuff with than I thought
I'll do it now, I could negotiate some things. But the rest will come.
