I'm 19 years old and I had an internet friend she was 18 years old and we mostly always played ps4 together, we always got along well while gaming and she was really nice, the thing is I didn't know her personally but we were Already so familiar to us, she said we can talk about everything we were always for each other because the only problem was we couldn't meet because I live in Munich and she lives in Denmark and she started her apprenticeship at the time, so she had to do a lot She meant work if she was on vacation, then I could come to her, which didn't work out because she only had 2 times a week off and that wouldn't have been worth it for me because to fly to the problem is that she is me then In November 2019, the friendship ended because of her boyfriend. The problem is I still have to think about her even though that was almost a year ago. Was I in love? Should I contact her again. She doesn't want any more contact but I just can't forget her. I think about her a lot
Yes you can
Yes, but it has nothing to do with love.
Yes, I would say that you can. Something like that actually happened to me (just not an internet friendship). I would advise you to try again and if she then lets you down, then unfortunately you have to accept God. You will surely need a few more months / years until you are over them, but believe me, it works.
She has expressed herself clearly and does not want any more contact. Letting go actually has to be learned, even if it can hurt. The distance would have become a permanent problem.
Ok but I think that I was already in love with what then has to do with?
Ok and how is that possible?
By developing feelings for her
Ok yes that's true but I miss her it's not that I have no real friends there I have many but still I miss her what can I do?
Ok, how is that developing over the internet?
Find a nice girl in your area, e.g. In a sports club, in a dance course (men who can dance are very popular ;-) or take a further training course at the adult education center, etc.
You ought to know best
Ok, I just think by sharing the same interests, that was how we had a lot in common even though we didn't know each other personally, she said to me
Ok how was that with you, I also think I'll forget you
In short, it was pretty much like yours. Only that we saw each other at school etc. That went on for almost 3 years and by then everything was fine. She always preferred me to her boyfriends, so I had hopes haha. But the contact has been broken for a few months. When I wrote to her two weeks ago whether she would like to do something, she "basketed" me because she now has a new one and has become decent. It hit me, but I hurt her a lot more often over the three years. In any case, I accepted it and I hardly think about her anymore. I survived😂😂 So you can do it too.
