Hey So the situation is as follows, initially I got along really well with my friend's friend group and they liked me until the "boss" of the group very likely made me bad of the others. From one day to the next they were super cool to me, they really left me by the side. My friend later asked them what that was about and then it was said that they all (suddenly) don't like me. We don't see each other often anyway, so I pretend I don't know anything about it. But when my friend plays PlayStation with them, I still hear them imitating and making fun of me.
It really pisses me off now and I hate hearing them every day and not being able to do anything about them. I'm at a loss, my friend knows how bad I'm to speak to them, but I can hardly "forbid" him his friends. Do you have any advice for me?
Just always be nice to friends, even if it's difficult. At some point they'll let you go.
You can do something about it. Talk with you. Why does your friend allow that when they make fun of you?
Tell him to choose. You or his friends.
I don't want to be nice anymore, I know I'm not wronging them and it's been going on for half a year now
Just ask them what kind of problems they have if they have nothing better to do than imitate you. Or if they imitate you and you notice it, go and say: "Are you so jealous of me that you have to imitate me?" "It won't be anything like that guys!"
Talk to your friend and make it clear to him that he should prevent irreverent behavior on the part of the friends. After all, he should be behind you and the relationship.
Maybe the friends still have to get used to the fact that you are now by his side. Otherwise, avoid the friends for a while. You should definitely be open to it if there are repeated advances on the part of his friend. For his sake, the friends and you should try to get along with each other. You don't have to be friends, but you can behave and accept yourself as an adult.
Thanks.
