I'm 20 years old, I'm doing the Fschhochschule and I do not have any real "friends"
I have only known and even I see it when it comes up 4 times a year. I sometimes feel the need to go out and make friends, but as soon as I'm in the company, they're annoying. (So very unsteady) Every now and then I play, hang rather said with people in the Playstation Party Rum, but after a short time I'm usually no longer bother on the.
A relationship I had even a very destructive to nee to a Borderlinerin I have then ended after 4 months just because I do not have to do something to me and next to all the destructive behaviors that stapled was unbearable.
Can it be that I'm sick? As a child I had very bad experiences with others and was always the nerd with his ADHD
I feel the same way.
It may be that you have problems. I think it just helps a lot to reflect and inform you about how to make good friends so that it gets better.
I do not think you are ill. Only frustrated.
Start cultivating individual friendships. Call for a birthday, be faithful, sign up again and again. Then, from 10 acquaintances from a friendship.
Also the relationship for life will find itself. You can't force that. It is good luck. By the way, the less you play in front of you, the bigger the chances are.
Hi
If you find it difficult to connect to the FH you can try to do it through hobbies; if you have some. Personally, I also have a hard time dealing with that, which is simply because I'm superficial and people are "putting in drawers" quickly. I just can't find as many people as "good" as others might do. (and that is not pretentious, but ok)
I can give you UniSport, for example. Highly recommend! Because the clientele change from week to week and you can meet a lot of people. If you then find someone with whom the conversation does not feel compelled and forced, but feels natural and pleasant, the person simply asks if they would like to have a good time - preferably with others - to go out to eat / drink.
At the "Date" you will get to know the people better. What does not suit you or you do not like is sorted out. And if it suits anyone, you have to invest to maintain contact and strengthen the relationship.
About this way a year ago actually met my current girlfriend.
Delete Instagram
What has that got to do with the topic?
Nothing, I write under each answer, so to speak as a signature.
Instagram is poison for society.
Achso
Instagram is poison for society.
