I've had an argument with my best friend for about 2 months. I approached you yesterday and have your offers to clarify that, she wrote me a long message that she could no longer do all of this.
We had argued over the subject of jealousy, because she accused me of being jealous, even though I just wanted more contact with her because she had neglected me.
Then she told me that I should bring her things to her for the week, delete her PlayStation account from my PlayStation and that she no longer wanted to have contact with me.
I've known her for 6 years (I'm 14 and she is 15) she's never said anything like that to me. Since she has been in contact with 2 other people again, she has changed a lot.
I just do not know how to go on. Today I found out that another friend of mine wrote to her because she was worried about me, of course she blocked my friend immediately.
What should I do now? I haven't slept most of the night because I just want to clear everything up with her.
does anyone know how I should behave now?
how can I clarify the whole thing?
"" "" and she no longer wants to have contact with me. "" ""
You have to accept
And as you can see, she's unreasonable - such a person can never be a good friend.
I know your girlfriend is very important to you, but I think she doesn't want to be friends with you anymore. If she doesn't want to clear it up, you have to accept it and move on. Don't run after her if she doesn't want to sort it out then. You are bound to have other friends and are bound to make a lot of new friends.
Sometimes friendships diverge because you change. If you don't want any more contact you have to accept that. However, you should clarify for yourself whether it is actually your job to bring her things over to her. You could also pick them up if necessary.
She doesn't want that, i moved away i have to take the train for almost 2 hours next week.
I'm supposed to bring the things to her, she doesn't want to pick them up.
Write her a long message, otherwise you have to accept that she wants her things back. Sometimes friendships diverge.
"I should bring her the things"
That sounds like an order. Can you send the things to her Otherwise I would suggest that she make an appointment with you and pick you up.
