I've been with my boyfriend since January 2020 and I've been living in his house since October 2020. My boyfriend has a 9 year old son who sometimes or often gets on my nerves. Since January 2020 he has been apart with his ex girlfriend who was 10 years apart. For Christmas he got an Xbox, for his birthday in March he got a PC, which my boyfriend and his ex paid for together, and he got a new cell phone from his mom at Fabio. They recently exchanged the Xbox for a Ps5. And now he wants a motocross and a trampoline again. When I noticed my friend, I only got something for my birthday and Christmas. Or he doesn't make small gestures or small surprises for me either. He doesn't like flowers. He's not the type for that, he always says. But I sometimes feel a bit strange when his son gets everything he wants and he doesn't do anything for me.
Am I exaggerating?
The son belongs in a boot camp and you find yourself a new friend that is just sick
Well, little things and flowers must be left over
Oh aren't you in the center? The child now goes first. Your friend is not your personal gift filler. If you want something, buy it yourself.
Can't you answer normally
It's not about gifts, but also to make your girlfriend happy, not just your son
You do everything for your child. Sure it's exaggerated that he gets everything, but that's still the decision of the parents.
That you are jealous of a child or of the gifts I find a bit strange. I mean, you just have to accept it when you have a husband who already has children, that you don't come first.
