So I'm 14 years old and my parents or only my mother thought that it was absolutely necessary to collect my cell phone and my Nintendo Switch etc. (because I did not do some schoolwork in the first couple of Corona holidays) it really annoys me, since I'm just not a small child anymore (meanwhile I've made up for everything) my mom says that I should put my cell phone and my switch in the hallway at midnight, she says that she can no longer trust me (I find it a bit exaggerated) What do you think, how can I get my mom to trust me again? What do you think of her doing this? What can I do that she no longer does? (Talking to her about it I do not know if it will bring anything, I have tried it before but if you have any suggestions for what I could say then please write it) Thank you in advance!
You should be happy that your mother lets you stay up until midnight!
Where is the problem? What do you want to do with it in bed?
Umm I just want to fall asleep z. B ne series or so look xD or every now and then when my bff writes me, you also answer haha
If you have made up all the tasks, I do not know why your parents do not forgive you 🤔 it is not entirely pedagogically correct to continue punishing your child even though he apparently regretted it and made it up to you. It's like who you took drugs and you're away from and your parents continue to punish you 😅
At 16 you see it a little differently.
What do you want to tell me
That as parents you see things differently than when you are 16
Lie
:)
So, should you put the devices in the hallway at midnight? It's outrageous…
I built a charging station for all cell phones (i.e. Parents and children) as a kind of wall shelf in the hallway. All cell phones are there when bedtime. Because when you sleep, you don't want to be disturbed by news. That's always the case with us, and not as a punishment for anything.
You have to step back into "advance trust" for a few weeks. Then you can also ask if you can keep the phone longer.
Whereby I'm 0.00 h for a 14 year old late. Are you not knocked out in the morning if you watch series for so long? The school will suffer again when you are so tired.
So, be a little more reliable and voluntarily end at midnight
All the best
