My friend is sitting on the phone all the time. What to do?

His family is far away and of course he is writing or phoning with them every now and then. I think that's ok. Since I say nothing about it but he sits non-stop on the phone writes with old colleagues and old school friends. We often talked about it. I do not like it. And if it's not the phone it's sometimes the ps4. Then I do the same and ignore it the same way. We're together for 1 year. And it's almost as if we have nothing more to say to each other. We live together for 4 months. And sometimes he takes his cell phone with him and looks at his series or writes with others. Look what is going on FB so. We talked about it. He says he will not do it that often anymore. But it only got worse. There was one more thing that bothered me. When I wanted to make public our relationship on FB. I do not really care. But for me it was a kind of next step. Did he say when he was asked by him "But if my ex girlfriend sees it, she could write you things that would provoke me and stuff like that, but yes, if you want, we can do it!"

His ex girlfriend is really a psycho she once attacked him with a knife out of jealousy and has 15 fb accounts. According to him

Since I lost the desire for it. And we had a fight. Mach 2 days we get along again and I did not want to address this issue. Because it only annoyed me. I know he loves me last time I'm not feeling so well and he's always there for me. He is important to me but I do not know what to do slowly. Oh, I know that talking to him about such topics is pointless. So I turn to you, you have a puzzle for me what I can do?

I do not know what it means to you all the time and that you do not spend the whole day chatting, that's also normal when you live together.

Everyone needs a break.

I do not catch that with the ex.

You say that he said that you can publish it and still argue with him about it anyway?

and you say that he is always there for you. What else do you want? 😅

I had the beginning of the year. My boyfriend moved to me after nearly four years of long-distance relationships and spent about 16 hours a day on the computer playing games with his brothers and friends.

I finally broke up after talking to a wall.

I learned: The quality of communication is a measure of the quality of the relationship.

If you have no common goals and only the bare essentials, then you neglected relationship maintenance.

And yes, both mobile phone and PC (games) can be addictive.

It sometimes happens to me, so if time is killed, so you just do not have to think. Man degenerates into a pure consumerist, as if only eating, drinking, poppen and playing were important. So even then, the partner is rather the object that one uses as a partner, with whom one wants to achieve life goals, of which one knew, one would think. But there's no time for that because "I" now has to gamble urgently for 12 hours.

Yes, unemployment was at stake on our side as well. At some point I did not stand it anymore and drew a line because despite his speeches he did not notice how I felt about it…