I have a question about parenting. My girlfriend has been under house arrest for a long time, banning cell phones and banning playstations and that without justification 🙄 the parents are currently having problems in their relationship and the mother is thinking about packing things… The problem is that my girlfriend is getting it all 😕 now my question to you. What can you do about it? Talking doesn't help, because the mother has someone to gossip anyway.
How old is the girl
14th
You can't do anything about it, is her family.
Your family and their upbringing and concern.
There's nothing you can do about it. And parents can easily withdraw their child's cell phone and Playstation until the end of the day.
And as for that 'without explanation' … Are you sure about that? Or is that what the girlfriend claims?
It is always difficult when parents think such measures make sense. However, I always find it very difficult to imagine that this is actually completely unfounded, i.e. That the girl has nothing to do with the prohibitions in terms of shared responsibility.
All that remains is that she tries to talk to her parents. In a reasonable and factual manner, of course.
Certainly she has been under house arrest for several weeks and the parents' reason is that she goes out too often.
Your girlfriend is 14 and there will be reasons for these actions. There's nothing you can do about it.
Then it can also be that she has not kept to the agreements. As I said… You have your girlfriend's statement, as I suspect, and it's just very partial
