I had been without TV for several years. In my year-long relationship, that has changed dramatically. My friend is media dependent, he looks a lot on Youtube and also likes to play Ps4. Only he has often taken no account of me when I slept with him and early out early he still gambled until 1 or 2 clock although I told him I can't fall asleep with this huge TV in front of your bed when he is on, He never understood. Today I just gambled 6 hours to understand his side as it is dependent on the media and I could actually fall asleep very bad or nervous with my legs jerked and breathed quickly. He did not understand that and then he came to me fully and said he can't sleep because of me because I breathe so fast and back and forth. I do not get it? Why does not he understand me? If he has to leave early, I'm supposed to be quiet in bed, but if I have to get out early, he will not take any consideration
There are two components here. Let's start with you, because you went "double-tracked". For one, and this is one of the great deadly sins in relationships that especially women commit again and again, you have entered into the attitude of attaining that you will already be able to change it. This usually does not work and only frustrates, because one side is annoyed that the other does not change, the other side gets annoyed because they are constantly pressuring them to change, to the point of why then you even lead the relationship.
The second component: it is standard today, not the exception that PC, TV and smartphone determine the free time. Not only is it irritating for your friend that you want to change him, but he also thinks that you can find confirmation in his environment that his behavior is quite normal (and that your behavior is not up to date). Here you can make no change if he does not seek any change of his own, because his subjective view probably does not even consider his behavior as "criticizable".
Something else is the television in bed against your desire and your needs, this is massive egotism. In addition, he can't approach you for a situation that you are not responsible for. Restless sleep is less (or not) controllable than watching TV / gambling in the bedroom. Anyone who expects control out of consideration here expects that the other person will spend the whole night concentrating on not interfering in bed with the other, and here, on the other hand, receiving what one is not prepared to afford.
So… "Quo Vadis"? He lives out his egocentricity, makes no attempts to adapt to you, but expects "tolerance" from you to a degree that over-benefits you. On the basis of the relationship does not really have great opportunities in the future, because if you did not get that settled in a year, then later it will not matter. The relationship was built on earth feet, which can no longer be replaced without major cuts against a more stable solution (ideally this would have to be done at the beginning of the relationship, because the will to abandon habits is usually only really given, if you do something for it not if it gives you something that you already have and does not consider it endangered. The moral of the story you can now calculate yourself.
If you play the full load right from morning to morning, that's normal. You are not used to it. If you do that more often and not so excessively, that will not matter anymore.
Your question is why he does not understand you?
Either because he is simply selfish or addicted.
Both are not the basis for a relationship. I think I would not stay with him anymore. If he does not notice, then it is probably not far with the relationship, if he realizes it, then maybe he changes something, at least then you can talk darübr meaningful…
