I'm M15,
I have to be home at 9 p.m. During the week and at 10 p.m. On the weekend because my mother thinks it would harm me. She didn't say where with. I'm good at school and I get up in the morning too.
Today I didn't put up with that anymore because I find it really embarrassing from my parents and I'm ashamed of it in front of my friends.
Today I left 15 minutes later, despite an agreement, because I'm no longer a child and I won't put up with that in front of my friends. My mother suddenly stood in front of my friend's door. I ignored her and drove away from her even though she said I should get into her car.
When I was home, my mom and her boyfriend took away my PlayStation and laptop.
The laptop is not only mine, it also belongs to my siblings. I swapped the Playstation for MY XBOX myself, so I bought it myself. I'm not allowed out the weekend either.
Next time they want to take my cell phone away from me. Which I got for Christmas.
What should I say because I won't listen to you anymore!
What are they allowed to do?
My sister is 16 and sat out twice and Tuesday 2 hours longer than me!
As your legal guardians, they can do all of this. Give announcements when you are at home and take things away from you for educational purposes.
You didn't obey the rules and you rebelled unnecessarily. Accordingly, the consequences. Learn from it
No, I don't put up with having to be home so early for no reason
Then live with the punishments. It's your decision.
They are allowed as legal guardians. By the way, the times are not so bad that you have to wage war at home.
But they have no reason to let me go so early! My mother said it would harm me, but I'm very good at school!
Parents are allowed to have a whole lot… Of consequences if their rules / current agreements are not kept.
There are so many possibilities, the main thing is that there's no corporal punishment.
If you are delayed because the train was delayed, or because the bus got stuck in a traffic jam… Then you can't help it and you don't usually get into trouble.
If you are late because you simply don't feel like the rules that have been in force until now - there are usually consequences at home.
So you don't want to stick to any of the rules that apply at home from now on? Then prepare yourself for the fact that your parents will possibly acquire this from you.
For example: Do not include yourself in the meals (cook less for one person), no longer wash, dry, iron or lay your laundry. Don't remind yourself of doctor's appointments, leave out your pocket money (it's a voluntary service anyway, not a must), neither vacuum nor ventilate your room, make the bed fresh, no longer care for any pets of yours, don't wake you, leave yourself to yourself… Sounds fine at first glance, of course, like freedom. But in the end you have more work on your neck and you have to think and act more independently.
Of course they can. You seem to have reasonable parents. Even if you have different views, reconsider your behavior and remember that your parents want the best for you. Your mom doesn't benefit from being home 2 hours earlier or later - she makes rules that she thinks will help you.
If you absolutely do not think you can deal with it, then address it objectively and exchange your views and try to find a common level.
But honestly, the behavior you described tonight just so clearly shows your immaturity and your need for rules. If you behave like this on a regular basis, your ma will definitely not agree to a deal… 🙄
My parents do almost nothing of that. In addition, pocket money is required if I help out with the household and I do that!
"Pocket money is also required"
Of course not. Pocket money is not an obligation. Not even if you help. The other way around: if you don't help, even more can be stolen from you. You have a bit of an unrealistic attitude
I know my mother very well and if she has an opinion then she never compromises on any topic. And to be honest, my parents shouldn't get so upset, they used to be allowed out much longer themselves!
The reason is that when you are 15 you don't have to hang around alone at night. Your parents violate their duty of supervision and upbringing if they allow it.
What does "good at school" mean for you? There's probably still a lot of room for improvement.
I'm legally allowed out until 10 p.m.
No. If your parents don't want that, then don't.
Nevertheless, they did not violate their supervisory duty
Ok and how should I buy something then, I can work more correctly at 16
But they would.
No until 10 p.m., how do you come across such garbage?
