I have had a problem with my Ps4 for years. The problem with this is that after months or weeks all of the headsets that I connect to my Ps4 suddenly don't have a working microphone or the worst loose contacts. For example My current headset: I noticed after 3 months that my headset has a super bad loose contact and that the microphone is completely messing around. Is there a reason for that? Ps: ALL MY HEADSETS WERE BROKEN (6 PIECES)
This is not due to the PS4 or the controller. For me, all headsets are still working and have been for a few years. You just have to be careful that the headsets are not of the worst quality and that you handle them carefully (hopefully, of course).
My current headset is a Samsung headset.