I have a son who is 3 years and expect a common child and my friend is a son of 7 years. There are every other week when he wars and quarrels with us. He does what he wants with us has no limits every time new wishes what you have to fill it (Playstation gifts and and and) and my friend does everything the boy says. And he lies to much and the father believes him everything. It's too much for me but I'm afraid to break my relationship. Do not know any more but every two weeks I'm not happy is almost down with me the world… Help what should I do… I can't even speak to my friend because it bothers him if you tell him the son should also have rules and that not me, he lets him through everything.
As bad as that may sound to you
Take a walk with the boy alone or on the playground
Just do not try to talk but to see him as a kid
And always smile silly
At some point he will ask himself the question why is the aunt so nice to me
And then you start talking to him that you have nothing against him and are always sad that he does not like you because you believe that
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Take care of the boy yourself?
Show him that he is welcome but that there are rules he has to adhere to.
Show him limits. Etc.
If your guy does not go along, give him the choice. With the argument that children need limits and you do not want neither your son nor your future son to grow up without limits and rules. Either your guy moves or you part with him. If he really loves you, then he moves with you.
The problem is not the little 7 year old but the big adult, who has no idea that such an education harms the little one later.
The little one now thinks that he makes no mistakes, that will later be his fate. When things get really bad he ends up in jail at some point or as an adult.
Worse ruin their work in education.
